Guide To Twin Flames Runner Pain
Too often I see the twin flame community focus on the chasers pain, but what about the twin flames runner pain?
Arguably this can be worse because while being the chaser can be frustrating and painful, at least the chaser knows why it hurt and what’s going on. The runner often doesn’t understand the journey they’ve begun and will be trying to frame this energy in something which makes sense to them.
Often this can be expressed in completely erratic ways while they try to understand feelings which just don’t fit into their current understanding of the world.
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A twin flame connection is the strongest and most divine connection you can have with anyone. Nobody, not even the connections with your soulmates, can ever come close to how intense and powerful twin flame connections are. However, while it seems like the perfect picture, twin flame connections can also bring pain and sorrow. Not everyone is ready for the intensity that this relationship brings. In a twin flame relationship, there’s what we call a runner and a chaser. So what causes twin flames runner pain.
1. They deny the connection
Not everyone is strong enough to handle the intensity of emotions that comes with a twin flame connection. Your twin flame literally shares the other half of your soul so everything they feel, you do as well. You can’t hide what you feel from your twin flame — it doesn’t work that way. Trying to shut off or deny that connection is exactly what causes one to be the runner in a twin flame connection. A runner is one that tries to run away or get away from a twin flame connection for all kinds of reasons. When you feel twin flames runner pain, it can be because they aren’t ready to face the reality of your strong connection together. Even if you share one soul, not everyone is courageous enough to be vulnerable and honest with what you feel.
2. They push you away
When a runner isn’t ready to accept you wholeheartedly, they will push you away in every chance they get. They’re doing this to either protect you, protect themselves, or to cut off the intensity of emotions they feel from your connection. If you’re not used to feeling everything at once, a twin flame connection will overwhelm you to the point of wanting to run away from yourself. This means that they will be cold, distant, and unattached from you in a way that isn’t personal or intentional. They fear getting close to you so they build this wall around you, so you don’t get too close to them. They could also possibly be pushing you away because they know that they have serious issues they need to work on and wouldn’t want to put that burden on you. This is where you can help your twin flame realize that the purpose of this divine connection is to help each other heal from things you can’t do alone.
3. They deny your connection
One of the most common reasons to get hurt by your twin flame runner is they will deny your connection and spirituality completely. They’ll dismiss the existence of twin flames and divine connections completely as they don’t believe in those things. When your runner is in denial, this can hurt you to the core and it’s best to leave them alone and give them space. Running after them will only push them further. Eventually, the Universe will find a way to make them believe in the twin flame connections, whether through experience or a hard lesson. They may also just be denying it but in their soul, they believe in twin flames.
4. Separation occurs
One of the most terrible things you can feel in a twin flame connection is separation. Even in normal relationships, nobody ever wants to be separated from those they love. Oftentimes, separation occurs when your twin flame isn’t ready, they’re with someone else, they’re going through a divorce, or they need healing. It can be hard to trust that you and your twin flame will eventually find a way back to each other’s lives, but it will happen. We don’t control the certain relationships our twin flames get entangled with before crossing paths since you haven’t met. If your twin flame chooses to confront the fact that you are their twin flame and there’s no denying how you are their strongest and most divine relationship, they’ll open their eyes to the truth. Sometimes, the pain of separation must be endured before reunion happens and twin flames come together once again. Separation is unfortunately an inevitable part of twin flame connections, especially when one can’t take the emotions that come with the relationship. When this happens, you need to let your twin flame go and trust that they’ll find their way back to you when the timing is right.
5. They don’t work on themselves
The reason why some or most people take some time before meeting their twin flames is that you can’t generally meet your twin flame if you aren’t ready in all aspects — mentally, emotionally, physically, and spiritually. We have various soulmates to help us learn the specific lessons we need to help us grow and heal from our past. You can get hurt by your runner when they haven’t yet worked on themselves and they inflict this baggage on you unintentionally. Nobody wants to be the receiving end of this, but the purpose of a twin flame connection is to help each other heal and grow from things they haven’t done yet. When your runner pushes you away, hurts you, acts distant, these are all things that are caused by the need for healing and restoration. There’s something in their life they aren’t facing that they’re still hurting from and in return, you’re also feeling their pain. You feel exactly as they do this is only natural. Go easy on your twin flame and remind them that you aren’t going away and you’re there, whenever they need you.
In conclusion, I hope this was able to shed insight into everything you needed to know about twin flames runner pain. Having a runner in the relationship is inevitable, just like with any ordinary relationship. You share one soul with your twin flame so it’s natural you feel everything they do, both happiness and sadness. In feeling pain, this is all part of the process, and learn what you can from one another. In the end, you’ll never have another relationship as powerful as a twin flame connection.
