Twin Flame Dating Someone Else: What To Do

PureTwinFlames
5 min readNov 13, 2020

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Is your twin flame dating someone else? What does it mean? Is this normal? What should you do?

First up — let’s tackle the important bit. This does not mean this is a false flame or that you won’t reach union. It’s a perfectly normal part of many journeys and your twin will often date other people during different stages (and you might do the same).

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The twin flames manifest the strongest love bond that can exist between two people. They are destined to be together, but before that relationship is definitively established, this couple goes through several phases. One of these phases consists of separation, although later they reconcile and get back together. Logically, when they separate, it can happen that one of them falls in love with another person and begins a new relationship. This situation generates doubts. When you see your twin flame dating someone else, the confusion is total and you begin to doubt the existence of true love. The reality is that this situation is part of your twin flame journey. Also, keep in mind that both members of a couple who are called twins flames can fall in love with other people. Remember that usually twin flames have been in a relationship with other people before they met in this lifetime.

Respect your own feelings

You are seeing that your twin flame is dating other people and you are feeling jealous. This is normal and you must accept your emotions. You and your twin flame are already connected and feel attached to each other. It is likely that when you find out about your flame twin’s love status you will be very angry about this situation. In this scenario you should keep in mind something important: the fact that you are not right now with your twin flame is because you are not ready for it yet. If both of you were ready for a stable relationship, be sure that you would already be together. The fact that you are separated means that you both have to continue with your own learning.

Understanding your twin flame

You and your twin flame are separated. He/She fell in love with someone else and they are dating. If he/she is your twin flame, you are meant to be together. The fact that your twin flame is not with you is because he/she is not ready for as intense a relationship as a twin flame relationship. Surely he/she prefers a “lighter” relationship at this specific time in his/her life. It may also be that your twin flame is still suffering from past trauma. This makes him/her vulnerable, so he/she does not feel strong enough in the face of a twin-flame bond.

A healthy attitude to yourself

If you and your twin flame are separated you should know that this is the time for you to focus on yourself. Work on your goals, stay healthy, travel, have fun with your friends. Decide to do what you’ve always wanted to do but never dared to. Face new challenges in your life, that will fill you with positive energy. This attitude will raise your vibratory frequency and you will feel perfectly fine. You are evolving spiritually and your outer world will be a reflection of the changes you are experiencing. When you do what you are passionate about, your environment improves dramatically. You live enriching experiences and meet wonderful people who help you on your evolutionary path. This is the moment to take control of your life, so you can achieve happiness on your own.

Avoid certain behaviors

If you see your twin flame dating someone else you will experience some negative emotions. The important thing is that you control what you feel and don’t do things that you will later regret. First of all, do not contact him/her in any way. You are separated and he/she has the right to live his/her life as he/she sees fit. Don’t obsess over your twin flame and don’t think about him/her. Focus on you and your projects. Don’t try to meet your twin flame either, stay away from him/her. Finally, don’t think all day that you are separated. If you do, you are activating the energy of lack. That makes your frequency vibrate low and you will feel depressed.

Let everything flow

Your twin flame is dating someone else and you don’t know what to do. You have the option to wait until he/she separates and wants to be with you again. You also have the option of not waiting for your twin flame, because you want to meet other people.

In this circumstance, you must let everything flow. If you feel satisfied being single, you don’t need to run off to find a new partner. Instead, if you feel a deep desire to meet someone and start a new relationship, do so. You may feel that you will never be with your twin flame again, because he/she was finally not your twin flame. Whatever the context you are living through, let your intuition guide you.

Attention to celestial signals

Your twin flame is starting a relationship with another person and you are feeling very confused. You must know that the universe is watching what is happening to you and will send you signals to make the best decision. Those signals manifest themselves through thoughts, dreams and urgent desires that come out of nowhere. For example, you want a new job to advance your career. Finally you make it and you are happy in your new job. Maybe the company you work for connects you again with your twin flame. It may also happen that you meet someone else, who you discover is your real twin flame. All options are possible, your intuition will help you choose the best one.

Final thoughts

When you see your twin flame dating someone else, your world falls apart and you feel totally disoriented. Above all, you must relax and respect your feelings. Keep in mind that if you and your twin flame are separated, it is because you are not ready for such a strong bond. Your priority now is your personal evolution. Focus on doing what you are most passionate about and keep your vibrational frequency high. Good vibes only attract positivity. Let it all flow naturally. Your intuition will tell you if you should keep waiting for your twin flame or look for a new true love.

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